Vada Prativada

तृणोल्कयाज्ञायतेजातरूपं , युगेभद्रोव्यवहारेणसाधुः | 

                 शूरोभयेष्वर्थकृच्छ्रेषुधीरः , कृच्छ्रास्वापत्सुसुहृदश्चारयश्च ||

    Gold is tested by fire, one of good upbringing by his behavior, an honest person by his conduct.

    A brave person is tested in times of  fear a self-  controlled person in times of poverty and

                                   friends  and enemies during adversity and vulnerability.

                                   Vidura, Udyoga Parva Ch.35 V.42